-In a world that is obsessed with showing off, the most grounded people are the ones who do not show off. They don't post, they don't chase people around, and then somehow they have more peace, more clarity, and more power than everybody else.
-If you think that silence means insecurity, you should think again. The people who stay off of the feeds, they are often the most self-assured. They are not afraid to be seen. They have just outgrown the need to be seen.
REASONS
1. THEY DON'T NEED VALIDATION. Their growth is sacred and it's private. It is not staged. They don't post for likes and views. They like themselves and they don't need anyone else to like them. Confidence does not need external validation.
2. THEY TRADE ATTENTION FOR PEACE. In a culture that confuses exposure and views with connection, these people decide to opt out and they do so intentionally. They know that the most important parts of their life they do not have to be shared with other people and they don't want to turn their joy into a post for recognition. They know the cost of constant visibility. They know that been unseen is actually power. They don't want to be accessible to everyone, only those who matter to them.
3. THEY ARE NOT MISSING, THEY ARE MASTERING. Silence is often mistaken with absence. But for these people, silence is where the work is actually happening. They are focusing on who they are becoming versus who they are showing themselves to be. They are doing while other people are posting.
4. THEY ARE LONE WOLVES BY CHOICE. They are not antisocial. They are just energetically discerning. They are not withdrawn, they are wise. They decide to lead themselves. They move in silence. They share selectively. They speak when it adds value, not when it adds noise. Their privacy is incredibly important to them. Lone wolves do not chase their pack, they build their own path. And so, you don't need to be loud to be powerful. You don't need to be public to be growing in your life.
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