Your erroneous zones by Wayne Dyer. Quotes III

-Eliminate external references of comparison.
-Eliminate invitations based on obligation and fairness.
-You can do anything that you set your mind to accomplish.
-Things themselves will not improve alone. If your life is better is because you have done something constructive to make it better.
-You are not necessarily what you say. What you do in your present moments is the only indicator of what you are as a person.
-The real doers of the world have no time for criticizing others. They're too busy doing.
-Boredom is a choice. Doing nothing leads to boredom.
-One act of courage can eliminate all that fear.
-Decide not to be tired until the moment before you get into bed.
-Obligation breeds guilt and dependency, while choice fosters love and independence.
-The moment you need, you become vulnerable, a slave.
-Only by treating yourself as the most important person and not always sacrificing yourself for your children will you teach them to have their own self-confidence and believe in themselves.
-Effective parents foster independence rather than dependence, and create not scenes about normal desires to be autonomous.
-The parents feel that their own happiness is paramount  because without it there can be no family harmony.
-These parents perceive the desire of their children to struggle for themselves, with the assistance but not overbearance  of a caring parent, as healthy and not to be denied.
-A relationship based on love is one in which each partner allows the other to be what he chooses with no expectations and no demands.
-If both partners work at becoming free of erroneous zones, and loving each other in the sense of allowing the other partner to choose his own fulfillment, then the marriage can flower and grow.
-Habit is no reason to do anything.
-By thinking highly of yourself and refusing to let others control you, you won't hurt yourself with present moment anger.
-Laughter is the sunshine of the soul.
-Get rid of the expectations you have for others.